You’re Worth More Than The Value You’ve Placed On Yourself.
– By J. Johnson
In our lives, we must accept that our self worth isn’t determined by anyone else but ourselves. Many of us have endured hardships and circumstances so bad that we can’t find it in ourselves to know how much we are really worth, and we instead turn to others. Though there may be people in your life that support you and encourage you, we have to realize that people are only human, and at any given time we are liable to be disappointed by them.
Instead of leaning too hard on another’s faith in us, we must learn to embrace that we must have faith in ourselves. Many times we are not willing to give ourselves enough credit, and are too blind to realize that we are worth much more than the value we have placed on ourselves.
We are God’s greatest creations, and there is no one else in the world exactly like us. This uniqueness gives us a priceless price tag, and should let us know that we can do anything that we put our minds to.
“The most powerful enemy in our life is our mind if we allow it to be so.”
“If you were happpy before you knew someone, you CAN be happy even when they’re gone.”
In a life riddled with unexpected changes, and disappointments, we are forced to have to let go of some of the negative forces in our lives at different times so that we may stay afloat and keep swimming in this ocean of a Life.
Let us begin again by letting go. Let go of the past, let go of the pain and the anger that you have towards those people and those situations in which you were wronged. Let go if you have to, of those who you love with all of yourself but just won’t recognize your self worth. Don’t blame them yet because you may have unknowingly done it to someone in your effort to make the best choices in Life. Let go by forgiving and choosing to move on. And to move on, we have to do it with a resilient Faith.
Each time we are facing the unknown, we are normally confronted by Fears, and to overcome it, Faith has to come in and take over.
Be strong enough not to hold on to any of the emotions that you feel towards a person that you are choosing to forgive because by holding on to such emotions, we are ultimately allowing them to hold us captive by staying emotionally tied to them.
It pays to forget what’s gone, appreciate what still remains and look forward to what’s coming next.
Most importantly, when we are able to realize how powerful the Love of God is, everything, including what we used to consider painful and impossible finally becomes Possible, Easy, Clearer and Simple!
…Came across this interesting stuff…
I was watching channel 5 last night and there was a programme on conjoined twins who were 57 years old. If one of them commits a murder, how do they punish him without punishing the other?
– Jim, Forest Hill.
-Name: Kevin, The City.
-Qualification: I was watching QI once and it came up.
-Answer: It has actually happened, but with ‘assault’ not ‘murder’. They were conjoined twins from Siam, called something like Chen and Chan in the early 1900s- it’s where the phrase siamese twins comes from. They were sideshow performers and during a show, one them punched a member of the audience. They were both arrested and tried, but the judge said he couldn’t do anything as it would be a miscarriage of justice if he imprisoned the innocent man.
Do you Agree? Drop your views.
Don’t smother each other. No one can grow in the shade. Nobody can really change a person, but someone can be the reason for a person to change. When we love people, sometimes we love them so much that we try to smother them into going the direction that we see could really be beneficial for their lives. In doing this, we have to realize that just because a person isn’t willing to grow in the direction that we wish, doesn’t mean that they won’t grow at all.
When a person truly believes in who they are on the inside, and where they are going, sometimes that person is the only person that can really see where being true to oneself can take them.
Instead of spending our time focused on changing everyone, we have to be willing to spend our time encouraging people to be who they really are. Being there for someone doesn’t consist of trying to make that person who we want him or her to be, but instead consist of trying to get them to be who they really are. Never stop loving those you care for even if they misunderstand your intentions now, someday, they would remember to show gratitude. And the more you love, the better your life and no matter the pains, God will always console those who believe in His eternal love for mankind.
When you say “it is what it is”, you are willing to accept facts and you want people to know the real state of affairs. When you firmly state something you wish other to lend an ear to what you are saying and follow whatever is the current red tape. “it is what it is” shows how emphatic you are when it comes to stating something. Others should make a note of the facts and figures and should operate likewise, keeping all the rules and regulations in mind. “it is what it is” shows how firmly you believe in something that you are advocating. In the words of Nicole Kidman, ” I am not sure what the future says but I do know that I’m going to be positive and not wake up feeling desperate. As my Dad said, ” Nic, it is what it is, it’s not what it should have been, not what it could have been, it is what it is”.
Life is as it is, we take it to be hard or easy. It’s all about our perception, attitude and level of gratitude.
And when we invite God into everything we do, Life becomes much more easier and simple.
At the end of the day, remember that real friends do not influence you to do things that are not a part of your character and that will cause nothing but destruction and turmoil in your life. Real friends will help built you, and will only try to influence you to do what is best for you.
A true Friend will tell you the truth and bear the risk of losing the friendship rather than bear the risk of watching you lose your life.
I have such friends and I thank God for them. Look around, find yours and keep them closer. Not all your friends will be your best friends but I believe there is always a best friend in many friends.
You may mess up, but you are not a messed-up.
You may make mistakes, but you are not a mistake.
You may screw up, but you are not a screwed-up.
You may fall, but you are not a failure.
You are not your downfalls.
Life would be full of circumstances in which people will feel they don’t have any choice but to disappoint us, but we should try not to take all these personal. And if we examine our lives, we will realize that when we are willing to live a truthful and honest life working towards our goals and dreams no matter the disappointments, we will always be able to overcome.
A single rose says a lot and a lot more distinctly. Find out what it says in different colours.
– A single Red rose says: “I LOVE YOU”
– A single White rose says: “MY FEELINGS ARE PURE”
– A single Yellow rose says: “YOU BRING JOY TO MY LIFE, LET’S BE FRIENDS”
– A single Pink rose says: “I LIKE YOU”
– A single Orange rose says: “I AM PROUD OF YOU”
– A single Peach rose says: “THANK YOU” “I SYMPATHIZE WITH YOU”
– A single Lavender rose says: “I AM ENCHANTED TO YOU”
– A single Blue rose says: “YOU SEEM LIKE AN UNATTAINABLE DREAM”
Our Blue roses have been painstakingly created and in, buried with a special meaning.
You are extraordinarily wonderful, a truly wonderful personality. A flight of fancy, an irrepressible imagination.
Flowers are wonderful representation of feelings.
Sometimes to help someone up we need to step down, not as a failed attempt to get higher, but as a sacrifice to save a great soul.